His wife and my husband went to another bedroom. After small talk of what to do and what not, his friend took me to our bedroom. That weekend in our house the couple came to our house. I understood I don't have any choice to continue this marriage so I nodded painfully. He consoled me and literally begged me how badly he had this fantasy from childhood. I broke down, 'Why are you doing this to me?' I asked. I couldn't believe he told me about this guy. There is a very good friend of mine and we can trust him, he is very safe in case if you have issues with having a stranger.' It's not like you will have sex with some random guy. ![]() Please, understand at least when I am persistent from years. He came forward, held my face gently, 'Honey, this is my fantasy from childhood. One fine day I shouted at him and asked 'What is that he wanted from me in his life?' I couldn't believe the same argument went for three years. I almost slapped him when he asked me first. Mark my words husband.My husband wanted a wife swap. Another swim up pool in our room.Įxcept this time…I’m going for 7 days. I’m already planning next years getaway in my head. He was acting like a professional photographer. I’m pretty sure everyone on the beach thought we were weirdos during our 45 minute photo shoot that included my husband rolling in the sand to “get the right angle”. The last day before we left Jeff took some beach photos for me so I could update my blog pics. Overall we had a MUCH needed break from the crazies (who were in amazing hands with his mom and my mom). I’m pretty sure no guys were asking me to go topless and take a pic. She came up and asked if he could take off his shirt and get a picture with her and her friend. □Īnd this guy’s wife was obsessed with Jeff. They were dressed in their cowboy attire laying by the pool. ![]() We even ran into some folks from North Dakota who knew my cousin. Laying on the beach without kids is WAY less stressful and highly recommend you experience it at least once in your lifetime. Last time I had been to the ocean I was busy trying to make sure my 3 children didn’t drown. No dealing with children peeing their pants. No little boys wrestling while we tried to eat dinner. We did things like sleep in till 9am, lay on the beach with our eyes CLOSED, play beach volleyball, drink fruity drinks before noon, parasail, meet new friends, and…best of all? We did it just the two of us. Huge thanks to Trisha from A Love For Travel who hooked us up with a GREAT deal. So the hubs took my 5 day offer and we booked our trip to Secrets Aura in Cozumel, Mexico. Needless to say I couldn’t get my mommy mind to fathom being gone longer than a 5 day period. Who volunteers to watch your kids for 2 weeks? No one. ![]() That worked for a good hot second until she text him and said we should take an extended 2 week vacation. I remember trying to convince him that his mom wouldn’t want to watch our kids for more than a week. I told him that I didn’t think we could leave the kids for more than an extended weekend. When my husband originally approached me about going on an “adult only” trip… I didn’t respond how you might think. I want to go back.ĮSPECIALLY when my wake up call is a toddler who needs me to get him apple juice, a hot dog and a new diaper at 6:00 am sharp. I still wake up every morning and ponder how I can lay in that hammock…in the sun…on the beach.
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